Goddess Talk

Whether or not you are a fan of strippers - their working conditions are horrible. They actually have to pay the clubs so that they can work there! A stripper having a bad day can actually lose money by going to work-if she does not make enough to tip out the club, the bartenders, the wait staff and the dj.

Here is the story…

Strippers Sue to Be Classified as Employees, Not Independent Contractors
The National Law Journal

When it comes to wage-and-hour laws, strippers are no different from pizza delivery drivers or waitresses. That’s what plaintiffs attorney E. Michelle Drake of Minneapolis-based Nichols Kaster claims in a wage-and-hour class action recently filed against a strip club in suburban Minneapolis. The suit claims that the King of Diamonds club is violating state and federal wage-and-hour laws by intentionally misclassifying entertainers as independent contractors and requiring them to pay fees to come to work. More…

Hopefully they will win there and it will pave the way for strippers all across the country! We are all Goddesses-let’s support each other:)

Is there real value in it or just lots of boys writing history who don’t want to think about their mothers doing it?

All,

Sorry that I have been remiss in posting. Been very busy with work (which is good) and had to take a break due to little things like vacation and life. But all is well-Goddess is with us all each and every minute and I am no exception. I have been praying lots to Kuan Yin-I feel that she is my patron Goddess right now. Asking for healing around money energy, fear of friendship with women. All is well with hubby!

I read this internet list years ago and loved it then-a friend just sent it to me again and I love it again! It is called The Man Rules. I believe that a true Goddess loves and respects men for being men. I am definitely no man-hater! I love them and mine! I rearranged them a bit to reflect my own personal feelings on which are the most important. So here they are…

-Goddess Lady

The Man Rules

1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both.

2. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
Men are NOT mind readers.

3. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

4. Sunday sports, it’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

5. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

6. Yes or No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

7. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

8. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, football, hockey, or golf.

9. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine… Really .

10. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.

11. Crying is blackmail.

12. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color.
Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

13. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

14. If you ask a question that you don’t want an answer to, expect an answer that you don’t want to hear.

15. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

16. If you think you’re fat, you probably are. Don’t ask us.

17. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

18. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” We will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

19. You have enough clothes.

20. You have too many shoes.

21. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don’t mind that? It’s like camping.

I just noticed that I am listed under WP search on blogs about sex priestesses. This is so wonderful but reminds me how far away from that I’ve gotten. I’ve possible gone so far underground that I disspeared! I want to say that I believe that being a sex priestess, or a sex goddess is something that ALL women are capable of. It took me a lot of work to get here. Not saying I have no where else to go-but in that area-things are amazing. I’ve just gotten a bit shy about being too explicit online. Even under my pseodonym, “GoddessLady”.

It’s a shame that in this modern world women still have to be ashamed, or hide their sexuality. Or else, if they have issues with it-there is little support for them. As far as I’m concerned every women should be having sacred and amazing and orgasmic sex regularly-with herself and with her partner. This is how we were made!

So many marriages and relationships lose this component and the overall voice that we hear is that, “that’s normal”. But it’s not. Just ask any animal that is overwhelmed with the urge to mate. We are animals. We need to be mating to be fully human. Goddess gave us the sacred ability to enjoy our sexuality even when a partner is not present. This divine gift is one that is part of our animal/human nature and one that we “should” be taking advantage of regularly.

Unless there is a short term medical or emotional issue-every woman should be experiencing orgasms on a regular basis. I’m talking daily or several times a week. MINIMUM! I say should here not to make anyone wrong but to bring home the point that just as if you were limping for years-you would say, huh-I wonder why I limp all the time? If you are not orgasmic alone and/or with partner-you can say, huh, I wonder why?

The cure? Is different for all women but usually involved reawakening their love of themselves, healing their past sexual trauma, claimin their sexuality as their own and some sort of regular rituals that contribute to well being and joy. Some examples are dancing, self pleasure, buying pretty things, therapy, personal growth, spirtual education. It is usually a mix of the intellectual, the physical and the spiritual.

We are blessed animals-let us nurture our areas of sexual shame and disability and heal. How wonderful would the world be if every woman, everywhere in the world was empowered sexually and spiritually? Men would be happier, children would be happier.

So - when you take time  for joy, pleasure and self-you are making the world a better place.

-Goddess blessings.

Lately I have been so amazed by the relationship hubby and I had-it’s like a new honeymoon for us. The thing that amazes me the most is that we did not “do” anything to make it happen. It’s really been unfolding ever since that first seance that I went to In November. He has actually used the words to me, “You are my goddess” and “I love worshiping you.” I never thought I would see the day!

A small note about the seances-they tend to be more spirit guidance from ascended masters than catching up with dead relatives and loved ones. That does happen too-it’s just not really the focus. Just an FYI-for more info see Ms. Tulip And Me.

Anyway-I have worked at continuing this connection, at being loving in my requests and less bitchy. Now-I’m still a woman so the bitch is never going away completely but it is growing slowly.

Also-I am feeling very grateful and connected to spirit more and more. Having a direct experience-speaking with angels, goddesses, spirit guides has, for me, made this a reality that is undeniable.

This Goddess journey takes me in so many wonderful directions-I am finding the balance between creating my reality and letting the wonderful reality that Goddess has in store for me unfold to be awesome.

Blessings to all!

I recently bought a saxaphone-it is my new hobby. I am still looking for a teacher. I named her Ella (the sax not the teacher). Anyway, I was talking to the petite sales girl about why I decided to start playing. I was thinking about some activities that I could do to replace the actual vibrational sensation and pleasure that I get from eating-now that I’m not doing much of that anymore and playing a wind instrument came to mind. With my love of jazz-the sax seemed the logical choice.

She said that she also loved food and although you couldn’t tell by looking at her she loved so many different things about food. It really got me thinking. What is the difference between a food lover or foodie and a food addict?

Well-I think that a foodie really loves the food itself while a food addict loves the way that the food makes her feel. When I think about most of the foods that I crave-it is the feeling that goes with eating the food that I think most about. Not that I dont’ like the taste but the taste is only valued as it pairs with the feeling. Thus I am an addict and she a foodie. Seemed like a big revelation to me.

I had a terrible migraine headache for the last two days. While lying in bed yesterday, I prayed and prayed-”Kuan Yin, Angels, Goddess, please help me - I surrender”.

My in-laws and I had a bad falling out a few years ago. Without going into excessive detail-I wrote some stuff online that was rude to them and some other stuff that was too explicit for them. I never meant for them to read it but they found it. I didn’t do the best job of covering my tracks-I’m much better at that now.

Anyway-I’ve apologized but on the condition that they acknowledge some responsibility in the matter. Things were not exactly peachy keen between us before this all happened. Years of ill will, hurt feeling and un-met expectations went into the “final showdown”. I haven’t spoken with them directly-have left phone messages and written but no direct convos. Let’s just say that everyone in my life (except hubby who has been very torn) has thought of me as right and them as wrong.

In bed-in pain yesterday-I prayed and finally felt clear enough to be willing to apologize in person for all wrongdoing and trust that I will be safe. It is not my job to make them responsible for their wrongdoings-only to be responsible for mine. So I will go humbly to them and apologize. From a spiritual place of taking responsibility for me and how I occur in their world. I will not let them harm me in the future but will let them have their own journey and lessons when they are ready for them. It’s not up to me when they “learn” only them. I will let go so that I can move on and my husband is at peace with them-his mommy and daddy.

The words of many a self help program echo in my head, “You can be right or you can be _______.” Fill in the blank with successful, related, happy. Being right is not joyful-being at peace with oneself is. This is the first time when I’ve felt clear enough to be at peace with my apology and not resentful. I will continue to pray to Goddess that this will be the case going forward.

Blessed Be!

She is the goddess of compassion, empathy and rebellion! I am getting over her slender build and loving her!

“Good self esteem is being at peace with the difference between your real self and your ideal self.”

-My therapist (Anon)

I believe that part of the Goddessness journey is to not just be at peace with your real self but to revel in her. She is the juicy, sensual human who is sacred and precious in every way.

On this New Years Eve, at least by the Christian reckoning, I just want to wish everyone a year ahead of feeling like a Goddess and receiving the blessings that all Goddesses deserve. I must remind myself that there is enough to go around for everyone. Enough love, passion, joy, money, food, whatever… If I have what I want-no one else has to go without.

May we all be blessed with love, passion, joy and fulfilment. The details will fill in. Remember when praying to thank yourself for praying. Remember when playing to thank yourself for playing. The spirits, angels, goddesses, and all benevolent forces are wishing us well, are wanting us to know that they are helping us and to let their love in too.

May we all be present to the blessing of our life as often as possible…