On this New Years Eve, at least by the Christian reckoning, I just want to wish everyone a year ahead of feeling like a Goddess and receiving the blessings that all Goddesses deserve. I must remind myself that there is enough to go around for everyone. Enough love, passion, joy, money, food, whatever… If I have what I want-no one else has to go without.
May we all be blessed with love, passion, joy and fulfilment. The details will fill in. Remember when praying to thank yourself for praying. Remember when playing to thank yourself for playing. The spirits, angels, goddesses, and all benevolent forces are wishing us well, are wanting us to know that they are helping us and to let their love in too.
May we all be present to the blessing of our life as often as possible…
Feeling down? Want to lose weight? Want to improve your self esteem? We can all feel better, more goddess like without losing a pound! Read on…
All women should “self pleasure” at least three times a week. It reduces anxiety, improves body image, improves self esteem and improves our overall sex life too. Yes-you can enjoys sex with someone else more if you enjoy it with yourself. Men do it. They don’t usually need to be told. They can’t help themselves.
That is wonderful-let’s join them! If you don’t know how, or don’t enjoy it, that’s ok. Start small. I will not get into the explicit mechanics of it because it’s not rocket science. (Well sometimes it may take advantage of rocket science…) What is difficult is to prioritize it. To make sure that you learn how, enjoy your body and love yourself. Three times a week minimum.
Look, I’m not suggesting that you whip out your rabbit at the next really stressful PTA meeting but at home, rather than turning on the TV or whatever-take some time out for you. You deserve it and you will feel better in every area of your life.
Tags: feminism, goddess, pleasure, self-esteem, sexuality, spirituality
goddessness, nurturing, sexuality, spirituality, tips | GoddessC | 
May 23, 2008 4:23 pm | 
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There are lots of things that I do to feel sexy. There are other things that I do to look sexy. I won’t go into the list but lets just say that it is long and involved. Everything from exercise, clothing, makeup, self talk, hair etc…
So the other night, I was in the heat of passion with my hubby. He told me that I was really sexy and I asked him why. It was basically a list of three things:
1. I like sex
2. I have big boobs
3. The color of the inside of my vagina is apparently a nice rosy pink (I have embellished that if you can believe it).
So, ladies, there you have it. The three essentials from the perspective of a man. I know that each man has a slightly different list. But not that different. Maybe round butt or long legs, instead of big boobs but that’s about it.
Keep that in mind the next time you feel the eye lash curler and bikini wax are ESSENTIAL!
LOL!
Tags: feminism, goddess, love, pagan, relationships, self-esteem, sexuality, sexy, spirituality, woman
being a woman, marriage, nurturing, sexuality, share | GoddessC | May 17, 2008 2:01 pm | Comments (1)
I was nervous about life, the universe and everything last night so pulled an animal card for myself. I got the swan. I was thinking about the card and realized…
The ugly duckling did not become a swan-she was a swan all along and just didn’t realize it. I am already a swan. You are already a swan.
Tags: allegory, empowerment, feminism, goddess, myth, self-esteem, spirituality, swan
being a woman, goddessness, nurturing, share, spirituality | GoddessC | May 14, 2008 8:04 am | Comments (0)
I was at a group and was talking to a psychologist about finding a new therapist. I kept asking about something written about each therapist to help me choose. I finally spat out that I am looking for someone who is spiritual and will support me in my faith in Goddess. He was very receptive and another attendee said she is a Goddess lover too! Watch out world-here come the Goddess lovers-we are everywhere!
Goddesses are multi faceted. We have many aspects. We are not able to be summed up in a 30 second elevator pitch. Who am I?
- Goddessness
- HAP (Healthy Active Person)
- Small Business Owner
- Lover
- Wife
- Poet
- Teacher
- Mommy
- Learner
- Teaching women to be self employed
- Artist/Writer
Who are you? I want to hear. I want to begin to hear. I could listen for a lifetime and not know.
Why do we designate ourselves as goddesses? Because we deserve to worship ourselves. We deserve to give ourselves the same type of love and faith and forgiveness and ATTENTION that we give to God. No warring for ourselves please just courageously fighting for our divinity.
Tags: diva, feminism, goddess, spirit, spirituality, woman, women
being a woman, goddessness, nurturing, share, spirituality | GoddessC | March 20, 2008 8:28 pm | Comments (0)
Revolutionary treatment for: hysteria, furrowed foreheads, sore throats and bony arms. I suggest all women check out the Slate.com slideshow that I’ve linked to about the history of the vibrator. It turns out that hysterical and stressed out women have been brought to “hysterical paroxysm” by doctors since the time of Hippocrates. In the 19th century it was all the rage. I guess the population of hysterical women really exploded at this point. Doctors did not want to take up to an hour giving a vulvular massage, thus the vibrator was invented. It was the fifth electrical home appliance that was invented.
So, ladies, feeling depressed, stressed, hysterical? Perhaps a vulvular masage is just what the doctor ordered. Excuse me, I suddenly remember a pressing appointment that I must keep…
Nookie Nookie-I am reminded that one cannot suppress only some feelings-I am already feeling so much more erotic and sexual after just 3 days on detox. (Bitchy too). At least hubby knows he can shut me up with nookie.
Also, I just want to say that I am beautiful! I am not getting surgery to be beautiful. My hubby loves me! Yeah!
I will be having lap band surgery! On Jan 8 or 10 most likely. News to come. Goddess works in mysterious ways.
I feel that a profound truth must come from this blog-but I’m sure my reader will understand that I’m just happy and scared.
I wish I could say readers-but not quite yet.
What did I do to feel like a Goddess today? Asked my hubby to cuddle with me. He, I and little one all cuddled up in bed and watched a movie. He is so warm and his energy recharges me.
Oh-today is Yule. Blessings to all.
