There are lots of things that I do to feel sexy. There are other things that I do to look sexy. I won’t go into the list but lets just say that it is long and involved. Everything from exercise, clothing, makeup, self talk, hair etc…
So the other night, I was in the heat of passion with my hubby. He told me that I was really sexy and I asked him why. It was basically a list of three things:
1. I like sex
2. I have big boobs
3. The color of the inside of my vagina is apparently a nice rosy pink (I have embellished that if you can believe it).
So, ladies, there you have it. The three essentials from the perspective of a man. I know that each man has a slightly different list. But not that different. Maybe round butt or long legs, instead of big boobs but that’s about it.
Keep that in mind the next time you feel the eye lash curler and bikini wax are ESSENTIAL!
LOL!
Tags: feminism, goddess, love, pagan, relationships, self-esteem, sexuality, sexy, spirituality, woman
being a woman, marriage, nurturing, sexuality, share | GoddessC | 
May 17, 2008 2:01 pm | 
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Tonight hubby called and I could hear a screaming child in the background. I panicked. Then I realized that he would have told me if he was on his way to the ER.
Then I was thinking, how going to the ER (for something non life threatening) is a kind of relief. For however long you’re there, nothing else matters. How much sleep we are all getting, how much credit card debt we have, how we’re going to pay all the bills this month, how fat I am, what I ate today, how nice the house looks. None of this matters, for just a little while. I want that. Not the ER visit, but the nothing else matters.
I told my hubby that we have been too involved in the rat race lately. We need to go to church. This is hard for us as he is Catholic and I am Pagan/Jewish/Universalist/Non-Christian.
So I just want to get to that place of such gratitude for my life and the lives of my loved ones that nothing else matters.
Tags: catholic, catholicism, feminism, goddess, motherhood, pagan, parenthood, spirituality, wiccan
rant, share | GoddessC | March 23, 2008 12:42 am | Comments (0)
I sometimes (frequently) feel like I am not a “real” pagan. Not a Wiccan. I don’t celebrate the Sabbats, I haven’t done ritual in forever. I haven’t danced naked in ages. I don’t even hardly look at my altar.
When I am scared, or sad or just want to talk, I always pray to Goddess. She is always there for me and I really believe that. I am not a Christian. I will never be a Christian. Sometimes I want to shout it from the rafters-I AM A GODDESS LOVER-DON’T MISTAKE ME FOR ONE OF YOU!!! But there are so many things wrong with this, like for example, I don’t actually know what rafters are or where to find any.
I am an imperfect, tired, lazy, human being who believes that a woman created us and a man helped. That spirit has no gender but beings with gender must have gender in their relationship with spirit.
I believe that no western religion gives women their proper place. They are always second. Not even equal.
Goddess please help me to be a vessel for you on this earth, for your love and infinite compassion. Please give me faith. Please help me to encourage women to love themselves, both literally and figuratively. For if all the women in the world were happy-the world would be a much better place. Just ask my husband if anyone in the house can be happy when I am not. “When mommy’s happy-everyone is happy.”
Thank you.
Blessed Be.
